At times we are able to see so clearly how our life will be much better after we have achieved certain goals. This clarity can also shine a light on how far we are from success, which causes us considerable pain.
Today we are going to tap for the distress that comes with not yet having achieving our goals and how that impacts our ability to take action right now.
Small children are like sponges when it comes to learning. It is almost as if they learn by osmosis.
As we get older it can feel like we are just not able to pick up new things, particularly those involving unfamiliar technology. Part of us resists trying something new because we don’t want to deal with the frustration that comes with learning.
Today we are going to tap for feeling like we are too old or too slow to learn something new.
It is so easy to remember all of the times we have messed up.
Because of this it is also easy to feel unworthy of new opportunities as we have wasted those presented to us in the past.
Today we are going to tap for the feeling that we are undeserving of new opportunities because we have squandered others before.
To achieve our goals learning new skills is almost always a must. When we are learning new things there will be times where we are completely lost.
When we feel lost in something new it can feel really overwhelming, which in turn paralyses us and makes taking action almost impossible.
Today we are going to tap for the feeling of feeling utterly lost when learning something new.
There are people in our lives who have strong opinions about what we should be doing, why we should be doing it, and how we should go about doing it. AND in many cases they are more than willing to share their opinion with us.
When we are unclear about exactly what we would like we can feel hesitant about taking action because we know these people will judge our lack of clarity.
Today we are going to tap for taking action in the face of not having a clear vision of where we are heading.
Deciding that we need a change in our lives can feel overwhelming because there are so many new possibles. As exciting new possibilities are we can feel torn because they are sometimes radically different and mutually exclusive.
Today we are going to tap for those times when we feel our goals are pulling us in opposing directions all at once.
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When we bring new things in our life it often means that we need to learn new tasks. For most of us, school and learning is in our past. It has been a long time since we learned something new and we imagine that it will be too hard.
Today we are going to tap for the fear that we won’t be able to learn what we need to achieve our goals.
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When we are trying new things we will encounter things that we don’t know how to do. Some of these things are so new and different that we don’t know where to start and they feel impossible for us to learn.
Today we are going to tap for the feeling of overwhelm that comes with new tasks that feel too complicated for us to learn.
When we set out to do something we have never done before there will be lots of steps and tasks that are new to us.
In this circumstance it is easy to be self-conscious about looking like we don’t know what we are doing.
Today we are going to tap for fear of being judged as we taken on things that are new to us.
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There are times when we feel like we have two left feet. Nothing comes easily and nothing turns out the way we want.
Today we are going to tap for those times where it feels like we just can’t do anything right.