We invest a lot in our hopes and dreams. Part of the reason we work hard for change is because these hopes and dreams will make our life better.
Even with the clearest goal and the right plan we don’t know for sure that it will work out and be better and that uncertainty can hold us back from taking action.
Today we are going to tap for the worry that the changes we are working on will not bring the positive benefits we hope to enjoy.
I Think This Is What I Want, But I Am Worried It Is Not Going To Be As Good As I Hope
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I really want this to work out…I know my life will be better with this goal…I know I will be happier…But there is a part of me…That is worried it’s not going to be all that I hoped it will be…That is worried it’s not going to live up to my expectation…That is worried it’s going to disappoint me…Because that’s happened before…I’ve had very clear, defined goals…Which I knew would make my life better…And they turned out to be less than I hoped…And when that happens…I hesitate…Because I don’t want to put this time and effort in…Only to have it backfire on me…Only to not have it work out for me…I hate wasting time and effort…It is true I don’t know if this is going to work out…It is true it might end up less than I hoped…It’s also true that it could be better than I hoped…It is also true that there could be more here than I ever dreamed…I give myself permission to be easy…Easy as I make choices…Easy as I hope…Knowing full well the future is uncertain…Knowing full well the outcomes aren’t definite…As I move forward…I trust myself enough…And I trust the process…To find my way to something good and better…Even if it’s not what I’m planning…Even if it’s not what I expect…It is possible for me…To move forward in such a way…That I can be successful…Regardless what the outcome is…That I can be happy…No matter how it ends…Because there is possibility waiting for me…In big and small ways…Even if it falls outside of my plan.
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