I Am Worried That If I Do This For Myself My Loved Ones Will Expect Me To Do It For Them As Well

When we make changes in our life it often means doing more work because we are taking new actions and learning new things.

Our loved ones sometimes want to reap the benefits of our hard work as well. It is fine for us to choose to share our progress with our loved ones but more difficult if there is a sense of expectation from them.

Feeling worried about others taking advantage of our progress can hold us back from taking action.

Today we are going to tap for those times we worry about others expecting us to do for them what we are doing for ourselves.

I Am Worried That If I Do This For Myself My Loved Ones Will Expect Me To Do It For Them As Well
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My goals are for me…My goals are for improving the quality of my life…So I can do more…So I can be more…So that my life can truly reflect who I am…And my success is going to be noticed…And there are people in my life who want similar success…And so it is possible for my loved ones…And the people around me…To expect me to do the same thing for them…That I am doing for myself…And I recognize the amount of work that this is…I recognize the amount of effort that I am putting in…And it is barely enough for me…Barely enough time for me to achieve this…Barely enough effort for me to achieve this…I do not have the time and energy to do all of this for others…Not that others don’t deserve this success…Not that I don’t want the best for others…But my effort is enough for me…And I give myself permission to recognize…Just because I achieved this for me does not mean I need to achieve it for others…Just because I’m able to do this for me, does not mean I need to do it for others…I am not responsible for bringing this to others…They’re responsible for themselves…I’m certainly allowed to share my success…But I don’t have to bring this same success to everyone in my life…How and what I share is up to me…Others are allowed to have expectations…But just because they have expectations of me…Does not mean I need to fulfill them…I am responsible for me…My loved ones are responsible for themselves…I am not responsible for creating the same success for others that I create for myself.