People Close To Me Feel Like I Am Judging Their Lack Of Progress When I Share My Goals And Progress

It is easy to get excited about our goals and how our life is changing. But not everyone is trying to make progress in the same way and sometimes those close to us feel self-conscious about their own lack of progress.

Today we are going to tap for when our loved ones feel judged by us when we share our goals and progress.

People Close To Me Feel Like I Am Judging Their Lack Of Progress When I Share My Goals And Progress
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There is a part of me…That wants to share my success…That wants others to know about my success…That wants others to celebrate my success…That wants others to acknowledge the work that I have put in…But when I’m successful…And the people around me are not successful…Sometimes it might make them feel uncomfortable…It might make them feel like they’re less than…It might feel like I am bragging…It might feel like I am judging them…But I know that when I enjoy my success…I am not rubbing it in other people’s faces…I know when I make progress…And I share that progress with others…I am not making them feel bad…I am not putting them down…And sometimes people might feel judged…Because they are judging themselves…And since they are judging themselves…It’s easy for them to assume everybody is judging them as well…But I know that’s not the case…I know I am not judging them…I know I only want what’s best for them…And if they want to choose to feel judged…That is their prerogative…That is their choice…I don’t want them to feel that way…I don’t need them to feel that way…And in some ways I feel bad that they feel that way…But how they respond to my success…And how they respond to me talking about my success…Is not my responsibility…It’s theirs…And if they would like to feel uncomfortable that’s their choice…But I know it’s not my intention…I want success for me…And I want success for them…My success…Has never judged their action…My success…Will never judge their action.