There are times when it seems like everyone but us has a very clear vision of what they want or a clear vision of what our goals should be.
It isn’t for lack of effort, but for some reason we can’t seem to figure out what we want. AND it is easy to feel inadequate for not being able to figure that out.
Today we are going to tap for the embarrassment that comes with not having a clear vision of what we want.
I’m Embarrassed That I Don’t Know What I Really Want
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I know goals are important…I know having a clear vision is useful…I know it’s easier to take action when I have a clear goal…But right now I’m not exactly sure what I want…Right now I’m not exactly sure what is next…Right now I don’t exactly know where I’m heading…And that’s embarrassing…People ask me what I’m doing next…And I don’t have a good answer…People around me have a clear vision and are working towards it…And I feel like I’m treading water…Because I’m not exactly sure what I’m doing…And I’m not exactly sure where I’m going…But I recognize the fact that I don’t have to have a perfect vision…I don’t have to have clearly defined goals…I don’t have to know exactly what I want…I need to recognize the things in my life that aren’t perfect…I need to recognize the things in my life that I would like to change…And by simply working on these things…By trying to eliminate things that are not useful…By exploring new ideas that pop into my head…By simply trying those things I’ve always wanted to try…That will get my juices flowing…That will help me to recognize what is next…That will help me to recognize what I need to be moving towards…I don’t have to have perfect vision…I don’t have to know exactly what I want…I don’t need clearly written goal statements…I simply need to try…And move towards what I enjoy…And as I move towards what I enjoy…I will get clear vision…I will find that next goal…Goals do not show up fully formed in my life…And it’s OK to give myself space to let them unfold…And to let them percolate.
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