Not knowing exactly what we want and moving from goal to goal can feel very unsettling and at a certain point the feels like we are just spinning our wheels because we aren’t getting anywhere.
Today we are going to tap for those times where indecision feels like it is getting the best of us.
I Feel Like I Am Constantly Changing My Mind About What I Want
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I like having a dream…I like having a vision…I like having a specific direction…I like it when I have a plan…It gives my work purpose…It gives my time direction…But right now, for some reason, I can’t get a plan together…I want one thing…And then I want something else…And then I want a third thing…And then the first thing…And then the second and the third thing at the same time…And it’s frustrating…And it feels like I’m wasting time…It feels like I’m wasting effort…It feels like I’m wasting energy…It feels like every single time I try something…I’m just wasting my time…Because I know after I do something…I am going to change my mind…But I give myself permission to recognize…The fact that as I move forward…There are going to be false starts…There are going to be times where I don’t have a clear vision…There are going to be times where I’m confused…And change my mind 45 times in one day…Just because I’m changing my mind…Doesn’t mean that I’m necessarily lost…Part of the process of reaching a goal…Is recognizing my initial vision isn’t perfect…And it’s OK if I change my mind…It’s OK if I feel a little lost…Because each time I take action…I learn a little bit more…I know a little bit more…I refine my ideas a little bit more…Even though it feels like I’m going a bazillion directions…It’s OK for now…I give myself permission to experiment…I give myself permission to change my mind…Until I can get settled…Knowing exactly what I want.
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