I Don’t Feel A Strong Connection To My Goals

There are times when we have a lot of enthusiasm for our goals. These are the moments when it is easiest to take action.

At other times we feel very disconnected from our goals. They don’t feel doable and sometimes not even like something we particularly want.

Today we are going to tap for feeling disconnected from our goals.

I Don’t Feel A Strong Connection To My Goals
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I have a list of goals…I have something I want to achieve…I have named that goal…Even if I don’t have it specifically spelled out…Even if I don’t know exactly what I want…At some point I have had the choice…And I have had the chance…To name the direction that I want to go…And when I came up with the goals I was excited…When I came up with the goals I was ready to go…When I came up with the goals I couldn’t wait to move forward…And now I feel so disconnected from that goal…It feels unreal…It feels too far away…It almost feels like it was written for someone else…Who is not me…But this is just a phase…This is just a stage…There have been lots of times where I’ve lost connection…There have been lots of times where I’ve lost enthusiasm…And all I need to do…Is tune into why I want those goals…Because the goals themselves are means to an end…We don’t lose weight just to lose weight…We do it to feel healthy…We don’t learn a new skill just for the sake of that new skill…But because of the joy and opportunity it brings to our life…I give myself permission…To spend some time thinking about why I want these goals…How they would change my life…What they will do for me in the long term…When I give myself space to do this…I reconnect with my enthusiasm…It doesn’t mean I think it will be perfect…It doesn’t mean I think it will be easy…But it will put me in a space…To allow me to start moving forward.